[The following is a piece by a woman I know. I have left it untouched, and present it for consideration. As I like to say in such cases , “it articulates a view” …]
Woman: Accept Reality and Take Your Place
There are no words to really do justice to the beauty of the D/s relationship. What comes to the minds of most people is nothing like the reality. I can only really speak to the point of view of the sub and I’m still not entirely sure what the Dom gets out of it, and that is fine, because that is as it should be. Given the main topic of this essay, this might seem a strange place to start, but I hope it will become clear by the end.
It occurs to me that all the shallow attempts at “maintaining the mystery” fall short because the mystery is not about hiding things but about the deep mystery of the opposite sex that attracts us in the first place. We only have to maintain some sense of mystery artificially because we have attempted to remove the differences between men and women artificially (there is no other way to remove them; moreover, they cannot be removed at all, only papered over with a pretence of equality). When the mystery of opposites coming together as they are meant to be – as an inferior who serves and a superior who protects – is intact, there is no need for contrivances to “maintain the mystery” or “spice up your sex life” or using silly euphemisms like “in the bedroom” because we are too delicate to speak of sexual intercourse.
Egalitarians try to make the sexes equal and interchangeable while often taking great pains to explain that this doesn’t mean they are the same; but this fails to recognise the inherent inequalities between men and women. Even the complementarity argument fails eventually since it is easily subverted and subsumed into the egalitarian “equal but different” rhetoric. Equal value in the eyes of God becomes an argument for equal “rights” on Earth, and that is clearly not what God meant when He created woman as a helpmeet for man. Woman was created for man; man was not created for woman.
For normal women, it is hard to imagine being sexually attracted to an inferior person, so it is women who try to be equal to men thinking that will make us more appealing to them. In the gospel of Oprah, we are commanded to become the man we want, as if that will attract that man, as if a man wants a piss poor imitation of himself. Of course, this is a lie, and man does not want a bad facsimile of himself. Women don’t seem too happy with this arrangement either, given all the divorces they file and happy pills they take, and the simple reason for this is that a woman does not want an equal, but a superior. Her heart knows that she is inferior and that she is designed to be that way but she won’t just relax and accept that her place is to serve a man in return for his care and protection.
The evidence is manifest in all sorts of ways, but most obviously in our physical bodies. A man’s genitalia are external, made to act upon a woman. A woman’s genitalia are internal, yielding, and made to receive. To think that this doesn’t matter in the bigger picture is ludicrous. Our sexuality is central to who we are, otherwise why would we even be having any discussions of this nature to begin with?
Look at how a woman is compared to a man during coitus, assuming she is being fucked well. I’m not talking about crappy acted porn, but real sex between a non-feminised man and a regular non-butch woman. She is totally out of it and lost in the moment – nothing exists but his cock thrusting into her. She makes noises and expressions that sound and look like she is in pain but she is enjoying it. A man on the other hand really only loses the sense of his surroundings briefly during orgasm. The woman becomes a brainless receptacle, acted upon by the man. She is not in control and she can resist or accept, but she will be fucked. Women do not fuck men. A hole doesn’t nail the nail.
Think about the previous paragraph and how it relates to the larger world, to women’s voting patterns, to how wacky things get when women act like men, like they have something substantial between their legs, when all that’s there is empty space.
After 100 years of overt feminism, there is no evidence to suggest that men and women are equal in ability. It is not that women are incapable of more than being a housewife and mother if it becomes necessary, but that we are no better on average than men at anything other than that for which we are biologically designed. It is not necessary to have the majority of women in the workplace when men can do those jobs just as well or better in most cases.
We were not meant to alter our biology so that we, men and women both, could fuck with impunity and fill the workplace with women medicating away their fertile years and meddling in the business of men, creating stifling politically correct environments and a lot of needless fluff work.
That so many ‘good Christian wives’ admit to needing constant reminders that we are supposed to submit to our husbands speaks to the fact that women cannot regulate themselves very well when put on an equal footing with men. We do not belong there and it makes life difficult for everyone, including men.
If you have a D/s relationship, the submission is built in, and there is no need for reminders because it is already properly ordered with the woman in her position as inferior, without all the “equal but different” complementarian/egalitarian clap-trap. It simplifies the whole thing and brings it down to the essence that women are inferior to men and, speaking as an intelligent, non-doormat woman, things become much, much easier and more peaceful once one accepts this simple truth.
[This author writes further on the nature of female inferiority and how female submission works here.]
Another important figure in the history of intellectual misogyny is Otto Weininger.
Previously, on this blog, “Woman’s Intelligence as “Mirror”“.
And also, “Whom she will become …” (argues that women are filled up intellectually and morally by men, as well as physically).
A quote supplied by ContentWoman: The simple step of a courageous individual is not to take part in the lie. One word of truth outweighs the world. ~Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn